I need an interpersonal relationship time out. I am exhausted from all the pissiness, drama, processinig, negotiating, hand-holding, discussing, venting, explaining, uphill-battling against codependency – all while making sure the kidlet has brushed her teeth and had a story before bed. Exhausted, hear me? Utterly. Can someone please drive me back to the crazy house [...]
The S-E-X Post
Let’s talk about sex, baby. Let’s talk about you and me… and her, and him, and them. OK, now that that song is irredeemably stuck in your head, I’ll tell you what the hell I’m rambling on about. Welcome to my sex life… Sex is often… umm, complex for a trauma survivor. There are a [...]
Feeding the need
[Disclaimer: This post contains an explicit discussion of BDSM and kink related activities. If this is not your cup of tea or you may be potentially triggered by this type of content, read at your own risk. Don't say I didn't warn you.] Let’s talk about kink. Or rather, let’s talk about my kink. (Ah, [...]
What to do? What to do?
It’s been a hell of a weekend. I’ve spent a lot of it thinking on and off about where to dive in with this whole new blog thing, but every minute I would change my mind and think “no, no, no… I should post about THIS topic instead!” Seems my life just feels too complicated [...]
